Eleven years of separation: Mother does not see you again with son

Eleven years of separation: Mother does not see you again with son

Dortmund - In an unexpected and emotional turning point in a long -term custody dispute, Andrej B. (48) made an application for sole custody of his son Alexander. This is done, even though he has been searched internationally for eleven years because of the withdrawal of minors with an arrest warrant. The case that shocked the public throws light on the challenges and complications that are associated with legal disputes about custody.

The dramatic history begins in the autumn holidays in 2013 when Andrej B. kidnapped his then eight -year -old son Alexander from Germany and took Kyrgyzan. There he built a new life together with his childhood love Veronika W. (then 38). Veronika also brought her son Maxim out of a previous relationship, who also lived in Germany at that time and was looked after by the father. As a result, the children stayed in Kyrgyzstan, while the mothers desperately tried to bring their sons back to Germany.

The mother complains about Years of Deportation

Anna D. (49), the mother of Alexander, announces that the first years were unimaginably difficult without her son. "The first few years were hell," she describes her experiences and emphasizes that she could not have held out without the support of her family and friends. The return of their children into a normal life situation was not possible despite the legal efforts of the authorities.

It is remarkable how fate unfolds in a courtroom. At a current trial in Dortmund, Anna D. learned about the application of her ex-husband, who now wants to strive for custody. "I found out horrified that my ex-husband wanted to apply for custody and request maintenance," she commented on the courage of her former partner to contact the family court with the help of the German judiciary.

surprise during the negotiation

An unexpected moment occurred during the negotiation when Alexander, now 17 years old, expressed the wish to speak to his mother via video conference. "I saw him for the first time after eleven years, my tears came to me. He has become such a pretty, young man," says Anna D. touching. The unique elementary school student is at vocational school today and has plans to study in Germany.

Alexander spoke to his mother and asked for understanding: "He asked me not to put any stones in the way. Only with custody can the father apply for a passport for him to visit me and talk about anything in peace." This request indicates the deep desire for a family relationship that has not faded despite the challenges of the past few years.

In a remarkable turn, Anna D. said that she was ready to forego her custody in order to promote the possibility of reunification with her son soon. "What happened cannot be changed. I couldn't be alongside Alexander for so many years, but the view of a reunion is indescribable," she said in tears.

The lawyer of Anna, Boris Strube (47), looks concerned in this situation. He noted that the judge made it clear that the family court did not decide on the crime of the child deprivation, but put the child's well -being. "The father's application is far from hopeless," found the legal analysis.

Andrej B. was not available for a statement. It remains to be seen how the family court will decide, but the judgment could have far -reaching consequences for the family. The decision is expected in the coming days and could fundamentally change the life of Alexander and his mother.