Millennials as parents: new educational methods or danger to the future?

In a current discussion, experts warn of the possible negative effects of the educational methods of millennial parents on the next generation, especially the Alpha generation. Some parents of this generation, such as on Fehmarn24 will, allow your children to give up unpopular hobbies immediately. A mother describes on LinkedIn that she would not force her son to hold out a hobby and argues that children learn to let go, instead of capturing "nonsense".

The reactions to their contribution are mixed. Some users support the concept of trying out hobbies without compulsion, while others criticize the "quinces" and note that children often act impulsively. Generational researcher Rüdiger Maas emphasizes the negative consequences of constant dropping of hobbies. He warns that children can bring this into a negative spiral and make them unhappy. Maas emphasizes the importance of staying in, especially in sports, to enable long -term success.

education and parental participation

Masa's representation leads to further considerations about the role of parental participation in leisure activities. Nowadays, children start with hobbies earlier, which means that parents are more intensely involved in their free time. This increased integration can be problematic because children have difficulty making friendships in the club. Often ask your parents for feedback instead of contacting the trainer. Maas criticizes that millennial parents often do not reflect, which is good for them themselves as children. He advises to find a compromise when children have changing interests, for example by trying both hobbies.

Another aspect that contributes to the discussion about the educational style of millennial parents is the emphasis on mental stress that play a role in education. According to an article on Heidelberg24 feels many Millennial parents the world as more challenging and believe that education has to adapt. Various therapeutic commentators, including Stephanie Lindeman, also addressed the differences in the upbringing between millennials and boomers and emphasize that financial uncertainties and the pressure through social media are an additional burden.

therapists and pediatricians indicate that “Gentle Parenting” is becoming more important, an educational style that relies on loving accompaniment without scolding and punishment. However, it is also warned that parents should not always put their own needs back. Nevertheless, many millennial mothers report uncertainties caused by the "Mom impostor syndrome". Studies show that about 25% of mothers under the age of 35 doubts as a parent, while more than 35% suffer from the "Mom impostor syndrome".