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Schackendorf murder case: A trial about toxic relationships and violence
In the Schackendorf murder case, the defendant is brought to trial for psychological violence and jealousy; Women's counseling addresses toxic relationships.
Schackendorf murder case: A trial about toxic relationships and violence
The murder case in Schackendorf has caused great excitement in recent weeks. Today the trial against the defendant, who is said to have killed his ex-partner Silke E. and her boyfriend, continues in the Kiel Regional Court. Loud kn-online.de The relationship between Silke E. and the accused was characterized by jealousy and psychological violence. After six separations within eight years, Silke E. decided she no longer wanted to be with him.
Katharina Wulf, the managing director of the regional women's advice association, follows the process and emphasizes the challenges that women often have in freeing themselves from toxic relationships. The relationship between the two often began with a lot of love and affection, which increased their dependence. Such dynamics are not uncommon: perpetrators use strategies such as lovebombing and breadcrumbing to exert emotional control.
A dangerous spiral
Isolation is a common tool abusers use to alienate their partner from friends and family. In conversations with Silke E.'s friends, their sadness after the separation became clear. Clear examples of controlling behavior include jealousy used as a control tool and the perpetration of emotional violence, such as threats of suicide.
The court documents that psychological violence is a serious problem. Many women often look for the cause of difficulties in their behavior instead of placing responsibility on the perpetrator. Children can be a turning point that encourages women to seek help.
Counseling services for those affected
Women who are or have been in a similar situation can seek help from counseling centers at any time, even if physical violence is not the main focus. There are over 40 locations in Schleswig-Holstein that offer confidential and free advice. For urgent support, the “Violence against Women” helpline can be reached on 116016.
Public attention to this process is important as it raises awareness of the issue and gives many women the opportunity to speak about their experiences. With each step the court takes, more light is shed on the often invisible struggles women in toxic relationships face.